Domestic violence occurs in homes throughout every community. It knows no boundaries of color, gender, age, socioeconomic status, or sexual orientation.
- 1 in 3 Utah women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime
- There is approximately one DV-related homicide each month in Utah
- Women are 10 times more likely than men to die from domestic violence
(Domestic Violence Fatalities in Utah Report, 2003-2008, health.utah.gov)
Domestic violence is abusive behavior that is used to control or manipulate another person. Abusive behavior includes any act that intimidates, threatens, manipulates, humiliates, isolates, frightens, terrorizes, coerces, blames, hurts, injures, or wounds someone. These behaviors cause physical harm, arouse fear, and isolate victims making it difficult for them to leave the relationship or get help.
Have you experienced violence by a family member, a cohabitant, an acquaintance, or a stranger? If so, DOVE Center is here to help you. We provide safe shelter and trauma-informed care to achieve empowerment, hope, and independence.
Warning Signs of Abuse in Relationships
- Controlling and possessive actions
- Quick involvement – strong feelings or commitment early on
- Unpredictable mood swings
- Explosive anger
- Isolates you from friends and family
- Verbally abusive
- Breaks, strikes, or throws things when angry
- Shows hypersensitivity
- Believes in rigid sex roles
- Blames others for his/her problems or feelings
- Cruel to animals or children
- Abused prior partners
- Threatens violence (including against self, such as suicide threats)
- One party makes excuses for partner’s abusive behavior or justifies it when others point it out
- One party has to account for how he/she spends all of his/her time
- One party forces the other to engage in unwanted sexual acts
- Excessive phone calls, text messages, etc.
- The abused party is visibly worried about his/her partner’s anticipated angry reaction to ordinary events
- The abused party visibly changes his/her behavior or personality when in the other party’s presence
Domestic Violence Awareness Month
The number one reason people stay in abusive relationships is because they are financially dependent on their abusers. It’s not as simple as, ‘Why don’t you just leave?’ This awareness campaign raises money to provide resources that help victims safely leave abuse and become financially independent, so they can be #FreeToWalk.
The money raised for DOVE Center through this online fundraiser goes directly to our organization, where it will be put to work providing resources and education that alleviate some of the financial burdens experienced by survivors of domestic abuse; resources like emergency shelter, counseling, and transitional housing.
You can help by donating through this link and sharing this campaign with friends and family in your circle. When you spread the word, you’ll help raise money for DOVE, and in the process make a difference in the community of southern Utah, and in the lives of your friends and family.
Thank you for your support!